I am going to approach this entry chronologically. I have two events that have justified a long delay since my last update. To begin, this website was up, but I couldn't upload photos to it, nor could I log in and create any new entries. We moved to a different server, and all those issues seem to have disappeared. The second point was that P*a*y*p*a*l froze my account, so all future money will have to be sent directly to the church, to stay legal.
Nab Raj came to our house in Monroe for the Thanksgiving holiday. He rode home with Michael late on Sunday. They arrived and had a good dinner. He again expressed the difficulties he is having in his apartment, as the girl he is sharing rent with lives an alternative lifestyle that has her up late at night, and their apartment is frequently filled with guests. He isn't sleeping on a normal schedule, and his studies are impacted by this. We encouraged him to tough it out for the last three weeks of the semester.
Thanksgiving morning, we participated in the annual South Park Turkey Trot race, and Nab Raj ran the 5K race with Alex. Alex beat him by about 10 minutes though! My 86 year of father did the 1 mile fun walk, and I think he both won the race and lost the race in his age category, as he was the only participant who was over age 85. Nab Raj couldn't believe that my father was strong enough at his age to compete in an event that revolved around physical activity.
Over the course of Thanksgiving, I decided to take him to visit a Nepali pastor who emigrated from Bhutan to Nepal to the US, over the course of many years. Naina paid a dear price for his Christianity, as Nepal frowns on and ostracizes Christians. I sent Naina a text message, in advance of our visit, letting him know that Nab Raj was coming with me, and he wasn't a Christian. Naina and Nab Raj talked for about 30 minutes, and Naina told Nam Raj his justification for his adoption of Jesus as his Savior. Nab Raj had several stories to tell as well as several messages to relay about what he had experienced during his time as a member of the Brahman caste, the highest caste in Nepali society. We discussed throughout the evening what it meant to be a Christian, and I made it perfectly clear that my highest hope for him is that he understands the human condition of sin and the value of Jesus as our savior.
On Saturday, we went to Wilmington, NC, so he could see and photograph the ocean. Nepal is a land-locked country, with no access to any port cities, in any direction. Very few Nepali citizens ever see the ocean, let alone step a foot in one. He said it was like visiting heaven. On the ride home, we discussed the horrible state of marriage both in Nepal and the United States, and this turned out to be of some importance the next morning.
On Sunday am, I took him to Hope Christian Church, so he could meet the people that pretty much have been helping pay for his American experience. He got lots of handshakes and hugs, and fortunately, our Pastor’s message was about marriage, the very topic that Nab Raj and I had been talking about during our car ride home. He loved the message, and it made inherent sense to him as Pastor Bruce outlined what is OK and what is not OK, in God’s eyes. Near the end of service, our church “does” the sacrament of communion. As the bread and grape juice were passed around, I had to quick tell him, in Nepali, that our religious culture says that if you believe in Jesus, then you take the bread and grape juice. I didn’t go into the why and how of this-I only had a few seconds. He said, “Yes, it is the truth,” and he took them.
After church, there were lots of people hanging out, talking to one another. However, within the hour, I was driving Nab Raj to meet Brent Vinson, a friend of Michael’s who had agreed to drive Nab Raj back to Liberty that afternoon. I asked him about his choice. He said that he decided the right thing to do was to follow Jesus.
I feel like I could stop typing right now and send this message. All of our joint efforts are formally “worth it.” He now is a part of the Kingdom of God. He chose to discard the fraud that abounds in our culture that “coexistence” with other religions is in everyone’s best interest, and that all paths lead to wisdom. He finally understood that Jesus is the way, and all else is bogus.
But reality remains. He had fears about his community’s reaction to his choice NOT to be a Hindu but instead to be a Christian. He had first-hand experience about how Christians are treated in Nepal, and he was concerned for his family. I gave him guidance that his top priority with his faith, in the short term, should be to read the Bible and learn what it says. Second, he needs to teach his wife. Third, he needs to teach his children. Lastly, he needs to pray about how to handle his community and the inevitable rejection he will face from his father and brothers. He is about to experience a persecution that few, if any, Americans can understand. I can’t even write about it from a position of experience, despite living there for multiple years during one of the worst times in that country’s history. For us, as Christians in America, there is no real social consequence for accepting Jesus as your savior. He will have consequences. Please pray for him.
He finishes his first semester at Liberty on December 14th, and his return ticket is for January 10th, and we don’t have any money to pay for his flight. He can’t get a job teaching at a university or high school until about March, so he will be on his own until then. We will need to support him until then. My wife and I are packing up two duffle bags of stuff that we know he can use. We have donations of 50 access points and 20 computers that we need to pay to get shipped to Kathmandu, as well. If anyone wants to step up and fund some of this, please don’t hesitate. The time is right now, and we need about $1400 to get all of this done.
In addition, Khopi Ram has been given $2000 to rebuild the first half of Saudiyar school, and we need another $2000 to finish that project. If it sounds like I am asking for money, you are good at reading between the lines. We are no longer just changing the educational system of people who need the help. We now have one of their leaders on board with the Christian message, and he needs our help, perhaps more than ever. Please pray about helping us achieve our goal.
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